ROMANCE GUIDE - MASS EFFECT 2
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Mass Effect 2 opens up the galaxy's dating pool significantly. With a larger, more diverse crew, the romance options are deeper, darker, and more complex.
However, this freedom comes with a risk. Pursuing a new love interest in ME2 will have consequences for your ME1 partner in Mass Effect 3. Tread carefully, Commander.
⚠️ Archive Alert: The Past Matters
Did you romance someone in the first game?
Their photo will be on your desk in the captain's cabin. If you romance someone new in ME2, that photo will be face down.
Phase 1: The Candidates
Your options are extensive:
- Miranda Lawson: Male Shepard only.
- Tali'Zorah: Male Shepard only.
- Jack: Male Shepard only.
- Jacob Taylor: Female Shepard only.
- Garrus Vakarian: Female Shepard only.
- Thane Krios: Female Shepard only.
- Kelly Chambers (Yeoman): Both (Casual fling, doesn't count for Paramour achievement).
Note: Samara is NOT romanceable (she is bound by her code). You can try, but she will politely reject you.
Phase 2: Romancing Miranda (Male Shep)
Miranda is guarded and professional. To win her over, you must respect her competence.
- Talk to her after every mission: Visit her office. Ask about her background.
- Be confident: She likes a man who takes charge but respects her skills.
- Loyalty Mission: You MUST complete her loyalty mission (saving her sister Oriana).
- The Fight (Jack vs. Miranda): After their loyalty missions, they will fight. You MUST side with Miranda or use a Paragon/Renegade check to diffuse it. If you lose her loyalty here, the romance ends.
Phase 3: Romancing Tali (Male Shep)
Tali has had a crush on Shepard since ME1. She is shy but incredibly loyal.
- Recruit her on Haestrom: Be kind to her.
- Talk to her in Engineering: Ask about the flotilla. Flirt gently.
- Loyalty Mission: You MUST complete her trial without getting her exiled (see our Tali Guide).
- The Outcome: She will explain that being with you physically is dangerous for her immune system. Reassure her it's worth the risk.
Phase 4: Romancing Garrus (Fem Shep)
Garrus is awkward but deeply devoted. The romance starts as "blowing off steam" and becomes serious.
- Recruit Archangel: Save him on Omega.
- Talk to him in the Main Battery: Swap war stories.
- The Reach and Flexibility: When he mentions sparring, you can flirt by saying you want to "blow off steam."
- Reassure him: He will be nervous about interspecies relationships. Tell him you want *him*, not just a sparring partner.
Phase 5: Romancing Thane (Fem Shep)
Thane is a tragic romance. He is dying of Kepral's Syndrome. The relationship is spiritual and intense.
- Recruit the Assassin: Find him on Illium.
- Talk to him in Life Support: Discuss his memory and his son.
- Loyalty Mission: Help him stop his son Kolyat from becoming a murderer.
- Accept the End: He will tell you he is dying. Tell him you want to be with him anyway.
Phase 6: The Suicide Mission Lock-In
Just like ME1, the romance is locked in right before the final mission (The Omega 4 Relay jump).
- The Cabin Scene: Your partner will come to your cabin. If you accept them, you get the romance scene and the "Paramour" achievement.
- Survival: Remember, if your partner dies during the Suicide Mission, the romance ends tragically. Use our Suicide Mission guide to keep them alive!
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"I had reach, but she had flexibility." - Garrus Vakarian


